The saying   “bad guys are loose, spontaneous and adventurous” is something we all are aware of but ladies still fall victim and gets heart broken at the long run. Ladies are aware of the the danger attached with dating bad guys but they still gets entangled with them. Should the feeling be categorized as intentional or unconscious ???

To be sincere with ourselves, every woman has had a friend who dated a guy who is/was clearly bad news, but she just couldn't resist. Maybe, that "friend" is/was you. 

And yet, despite all the warnings and red flags, the pull of dating a "bad boy" was just too strong. So, even with all the signs that heartbreak is inevitable, why do we still find bad boys so appealing?

MY PERSONAL ENCOUNTER

Few days back, a close friend asked me over to her place. She was crying over the phone when she called, so I had to rush down to her apartment as soon as I was done with work for the day. 

After much crying she got to calm down a little and explain things to me. She said “I have been in a relationship with this guy for over two months, though I know he’s a player but damn girl… 

I couldn’t resist the fact that we both connect mentally and physically. We ate out last night and while having a good time with him, an-ass lady walked by and my guy lost it. 

Tried not to get angry I called his attention back to me but he stood up beside me to go ask the girl out. Still trying to wrap my head around it. he called me today to tell me it’s over. 

The relationship was smooth and sweet, well, maybe that’s how I chose to see it. He said he’s into someone else now. I couldn’t believe my ears when I heard that…

Hmmm her story left me wondering why we ladies’ find them appealing, we feel they are right for us physically and it’s for a short period of time but they are wrong for us emotionally and still expect a commitment from them.

If this phrase comes to mind “I know I shouldn’t get entangled with him, but…” come under this post and raises both hands and a foot, Let’s share our thoughts and experiences. Life is fun when we share our views and opinion with others.

By Omoboyowa Tolulope and Akpotereno Afoke