WHY DO MEN FEEL INTIMIDATED BY THE SUCCESS WOMEN ACQUIRE FOR THEMSELVES IN TODAY’S SOCIETY?

These days men complain about shouldering all the responsibilities of women and family in general so they  came to the conclusion that they prefer they successful women rather than “2k Urgently generation”. This prompts the generation to strive hard in the society to make ends meet and to be independent on their own. 

What makes it more confusing is the fact that these same men feels intimated by the wealth acquired by their spouse, it’s not correlating, what exactly are we missing here?🤷🏽‍♀️

As a lady, I’m confused because if you are successful, it’s a problem and if you are not , it’s also a problem. So why should I not go for a successful problem😂🤣😂

I’ve Heard of a scenario where a man was complaining on social media of paying rent in a house owed by his wife and he just got to find out. Have you thought of the reason why she did that? It could be because she know quiet well the kind of man she married, if you tell some men about the things you’ve achieved so far, they feel intimidated and they begin to neglect their duties at home. They go with the saying “ You are cash madam nau, you should be able to pay for it”. 

A woman is meant to be the helper and the man as the head, now the head is pushing responsibility to the neck, what shall we say of this?🤷🏽‍♀️

Though not all men feels intimated, there are some men who applauses their partners achievement and they are also the cornerstone to those achievements. They encourages their partner by making them see value to life, successful career and a fulfilled family.

It’s now becoming a matter of concern for single ladies who are independent because they are finding it difficult to get a man who won’t feel intimated or hate them for what they’ve accomplished but rather a man who is genuine happy and will continue to support them.

“My mother called me to caution me to stop flaunting my car on my WhatsApp status because it chases men away” it’s been believed that once you show your successful side, men pull away. 

Now the question is, if almost every guy say they want women who aren’t dependent, why then are they scared to make moves on independent, successful, upward-mobile women? Why do they feel intimidated by who can help their future?

There are a lot of questions that need answers and the readers contribution and ideas are needed. I Will be at the comment section to read comments👀👀 because I don’t have all the answers to these questions.

See you Next week Wednesday, stay positive.💪🏼