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REVEALED: How High Costs of Living in Abuja Push Young Girls Into Hookup, Prostitution

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By Adewunmi Oluwaseun

 

The relentless quest for survival has driven many young women in Nigeria’s Federal Capital Territory (FCT) to embrace a life of prostitution. Unlike other pleasure workers who charge premium fees, these women offer their services at shockingly low rates, with some resorting to paying the police for protection. This is the harsh reality of a profession that society shuns, but which many women are forced into as a last resort in the face of crushing economic pressure.

 

In many religious circles, sex is regarded as a sacred act, reserved for married couples as ordained by their faith. Even in more liberal social settings, it is viewed as an intimate act that binds lovers. However, in the bustling heart of Abuja, sex has become a commodity, hawked openly on the streets at night for a price that reflects the desperation of those who offer it. In this world, the exchange of money for intimacy is not about pleasure; it’s about survival.

 

Prostitution is often referred to as the world’s oldest profession. In Abuja, many young women have found themselves entrenched in it, using the proceeds to pay rent, feed themselves, and even establish small businesses. Joy, a 25-year-old sex worker who hails from Nasarawa State, shared her story with Abuja City Journal at a corner shop called HK on 3rd Avenue, Gwarimpa. A widow and orphan, Joy’s life took a dark turn two years ago when her husband died, and her in-laws rejected her, leaving her to fend for herself in Abuja.

 

Desperation led Joy to accept an invitation from a friend in the city, who promised her a job. That job, however, turned out to be prostitution. Though she initially resisted, the high cost of living in Abuja, combined with a lack of support from family or friends, forced her hand. Joy recounts how she had no choice but to join the profession to avoid eviction from an apartment where the landlady charged N7,000 per week in rent. “I couldn’t pay rent or feed myself. My only option was to either sleep on the streets or join the girls,” she explained.

 

For Queen Paul, another sex worker in Abuja, the story is all too familiar. With over five years in the business, Queen shared how a lack of parental love and constant pressure from her environment pushed her into the sex trade. “I dropped out of school in SS2 and moved in with my uncle in Benue State. After a failed relationship that left me heartbroken and pregnant, I turned to selling fried bean-cakes (Akara) but barely made ends meet. Then, a friend invited me to Abuja, promising me a job and a new life. It wasn’t long before I realized I had been tricked into prostitution,” she told Abuja City Journal podcast, REALTALK.

 

Queen’s story echoes the plight of many young women. Earning as little as ₦1,500 per client, these women often find themselves servicing several men a day just to afford the basics. “Men price sex from me like they’re buying a cheap commodity. I do what I must to survive,” Queen admitted. Her dreams of building a better life have been replaced by the harsh reality of daily struggles in Abuja’s shadow economy.

 

Prostitution is not only for those with no jobs or skills. Some young women in Abuja lead double lives. By day, they are corporate employees in private firms, earning a meager salary. By night, they transform into sex workers, trying to bridge the financial gap between their earnings and the skyrocketing costs of rent, food, and transportation. For many, their monthly salary – often as low as ₦70,000 – barely covers their transportation, let alone rent or food. With a single-room apartment in the outskirts like Nyanya or Idu costing over ₦350,000 annually, young women are forced to find “side hustles” to make ends meet.

 

These “side hustles” often come in the form of prostitution. Many of these women have multiple lovers, not for love or companionship, but for financial support. “Most of the men know we are struggling and exploit that. They give us just enough for food or airtime in exchange for sex. It’s humiliating, but what choice do we have?” one woman, who requested anonymity, confessed.

 

In today’s world, social media has amplified the pressures on young women, especially in cities like Abuja. Platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook show images of a glamorous life filled with luxury cars, high-end gadgets, and fancy meals. For many young women, the desire to attain this lifestyle leads them down dangerous paths. Cute Berry (not her real name), who rents a one-bedroom apartment for ₦1.8 million annually and drives a Mercedes Benz, is an example of this. With an iPhone 15 Pro Max worth over ₦2 million, she admitted that prostitution is the only way to maintain her lavish lifestyle. “A white-collar job can’t pay my bills,” she said, nonchalantly. “Prostitution offers me the income I need to keep up appearances.”

 

For young women who look up to people like Cute Berry, the allure of a life filled with material wealth is intoxicating. “You see them living large on social media and think, ‘I want that too,’” another woman confessed. The reality, however, is far from glamorous. The high cost of living in Abuja – from rent to transportation to basic amenities – has pushed many young women into making choices they never imagined.

 

The high cost of living in Abuja has pushed female youth to the brink, with many resorting to prostitution as a means of survival. But the sex trade is not without its dangers. From exploitation by clients and law enforcement to the health risks involved, prostitution is a precarious profession that takes a toll on those who engage in it.

 

Yet, there are alternatives. Skill acquisition programs, remote jobs, and small-scale businesses could provide young women with a way out. The Nigerian government, civil society organizations, and private sector stakeholders must take steps to offer viable alternatives for these women. Prostitution is not an option; it is a last resort for those who see no other way out. By investing in training and job opportunities, society can give these women a chance to live with dignity and purpose.

 

Abuja’s sex trade is a symptom of a larger issue – the growing economic disparity and lack of opportunities for young people. Addressing the root causes of this will take more than just moral outrage. It will require concerted efforts to improve the economic situation for all Nigerians, particularly the most vulnerable.

 

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Atoyebi Adewumi Wins 4th National Essay Competition, Beats 2,000 Contestants

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By Samson Adeyanju

Atoyebi Adewumi has emerged winner of the fourth edition of the National Essay Competition, beating more than 2,000 contestants in an intellectual contest aimed at promoting academic excellence, critical thinking and creative writing among young Nigerians.

The competition, which focused on the relevance of taxation to national development, challenged participants to examine the role of tax revenue in financing public services, stimulating economic growth and strengthening the relationship between government and citizens.

The initiative provided a platform for young Nigerians to demonstrate their writing skills, articulate informed perspectives on national issues and contribute ideas towards building a more responsible and progressive society.

Speaking after being declared winner, an elated Adewumi expressed gratitude to the convener, Foluso Sylvanus Ojo, and the organising team for providing young Nigerians with an opportunity to showcase their intellectual abilities.

“I am so glad, very, very glad, to have this privilege of emerging as the winner. I am grateful to the convener and the entire team, as well as everyone who supported this vision,” Adewumi said.

In his remarks, Ojo expressed concern over the tendency to criticise the attitudes and lifestyles of younger generations without providing adequate opportunities to nurture their talents and channel their energies towards productive pursuits.

He called on the government, corporate organisations and nongovernmental organisations to invest more in educational initiatives that promote intellectual excellence, creativity and responsible citizenship.

According to him, sustained investment in academic competitions and youth development programmes would encourage discipline, innovation and a stronger commitment to national development.

Drawing a comparison with the substantial cash prizes awarded in some reality television competitions in Nigeria, Ojo argued that students and intellectually gifted young Nigerians deserved greater recognition, financial support and encouragement.

“I believe the government should support initiatives like this because individuals need supportive hands, especially from the government. When they receive such support, they become more confident and motivated to continue their good work,” he said.

Ojo maintained that society could not continue to complain about the attitudes and lifestyles of young people without deliberately investing in programmes that encourage positive values and productive engagement.

The fourth edition of the competition also underscored the importance of tax awareness among young Nigerians, highlighting how effective taxation, transparency and accountable governance could contribute to improved infrastructure, education, healthcare and other essential public services.

Beyond celebrating the winner, the competition reinforced the need to identify, encourage and empower emerging intellectual talents capable of contributing meaningfully to Nigeria’s development.

Winner of the 5,000,000 naira

Winner of 3,000,000 naira

Winner of 2,000,000

All the participants 

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20 Finalists Begin Final Stage of National Essay Competition

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Twenty finalists from across Nigeria have begun the final stage of the fourth edition of the National Essay Competition in Abuja, following an orientation session designed to prepare them for the decisive examination.

The finalists arrived in the Federal Capital Territory for a four-day, all-expenses-paid programme featuring the essay examination, institutional tours and opportunities for learning and networking.

The competition, the brainchild of Mr Foluso Ojo, is sponsored by the Nigeria Revenue Service (NRS).

Ahead of the examination, the finalists participated in an orientation session led by Professor Omotosho Borisade of Ekiti State University, who serves as the competition’s umpire.

The session familiarised participants with the competition’s rules and regulations, examination guidelines and assessment criteria, helping them understand the requirements of the final stage.

The essay examination is scheduled to begin today at 9 a.m., after which the finalists are expected to embark on institutional tours around Abuja.

The programme is designed to extend beyond the contest itself, exposing the finalists to new learning opportunities, professional connections and experiences in the nation’s capital.

The competition brings together young Nigerians to demonstrate their writing ability, knowledge, creativity and critical-thinking skills as they compete for the top honours.

With the finalists prepared for the examination, attention now turns to their performance and the eventual emergence of the competition’s champion.

 

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Caritas Nigeria Urges Ecological Conversion, Climate Action

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Caritas Nigeria has called on Nigerians to embrace what Pope Francis describes as “ecological conversion,” urging citizens, institutions and governments to move beyond environmental rhetoric and take concrete action against climate change and environmental degradation.

The call was made during the commemoration of World Environment Day 2026 at the Catholic Secretariat of Nigeria (CSN) Training Hall, Abuja, under the theme: “Inspired by Nature. For Climate. For Our Future.”

Delivering an address on behalf of the Catholic Secretariat of Nigeria, the Deputy Secretary, Rev. Fr. Augustine Okochi, described care for the environment as a moral, spiritual and ethical responsibility rooted in Christian faith.

“Our concern for the environment is not a passing trend. It is part of our moral duty, our Christian witness, and our responsibility to future generations,” he said.

Fr. Okochi noted that climate change is already affecting communities through flooding, land degradation, water pollution, rising temperatures and declining livelihoods, with the poor, women, children and displaced persons bearing the greatest burden.

He commended Caritas Nigeria’s efforts in environmental awareness, tree planting, climate-smart agriculture and support for vulnerable communities, while urging families, schools, parishes and institutions to cultivate a culture of environmental stewardship.

Speaking at the event, Caritas Nigeria’s Environmental Focus President, Dr. Pascal Onu, stressed the importance of educating young people on environmental protection through debate and quiz competitions.

“We believe it is important to catch them young. When we imbibe the right environmental culture in our children, it goes a long way in protecting the environment,” he said.

Dr. Onu identified inadequate infrastructure, poor waste management systems and limited funding as major obstacles to environmental sustainability despite increasing public awareness of climate issues.

Also speaking, Director of the Department of Climate Change at the Federal Ministry of Environment, Dr. Iniobong Abiola-Awe, reaffirmed Nigeria’s commitment to climate action through initiatives such as the National Adaptation Plan, Nationally Determined Contributions (NDCs), the Just Transition Action Plan and the National Clean Cooking Policy.

She emphasized the role of young people in advancing climate solutions through programmes such as the Eco-Schools Initiative and the Youth Climate Innovation Hub.

In a goodwill message, the Abuja Environmental Protection Board (AEPB), represented by Chief Environmental Health Officer Omenta Rachael Chinenye, urged Nigerians to draw inspiration from nature in addressing environmental challenges and commended the active participation of students in climate debates.

Students at the event said the programme deepened their understanding of environmental protection, forest conservation and sustainable living, pledging to promote environmental responsibility in their schools and communities.

The event brought together religious leaders, government officials, environmental experts, students and development partners who renewed their commitment to building a cleaner, greener and more climate-resilient Nigeria.

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