{"id":66339,"date":"2025-05-22T14:41:59","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T14:41:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/?p=66339"},"modified":"2025-05-22T14:41:59","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T14:41:59","slug":"vj-adams-to-men-stop-chasing-bodies-start-asking-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/2025\/05\/22\/vj-adams-to-men-stop-chasing-bodies-start-asking-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"VJ Adams to Men: Stop Chasing Bodies, Start Asking Questions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>By Anifowoshe Oladipupo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nigerian media personality and television host, Adams Ibrahim Adebola, popularly known as VJ Adams, has delivered a blunt message to men about how they approach dating.<\/p>\n<p>In a video posted on his Instagram page, VJ Adams advised men to stop focusing on physical appearance when choosing a partner and start prioritising meaningful qualities.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow far, young boys ehn. How is it that up until now, you people still don\u2019t have sense? Don\u2019t worry I will help you, that\u2019s why I\u2019m here,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Comparing the approach of men to that of women, he pointed out that women are more intentional in their assessments.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLook at your female friends, you see when they\u2019re discussing among themselves and one of them introduces the new man she met.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The first thing they do is ask what he does for work. And if they ask for his picture, is just to make sure that the man hasn\u2019t toasted them before,\u201d he stated.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut you see you boys you\u2019re idiots. You just talk about her body, fools! You never ask important questions,\u201d he added.<\/p>\n<p>The video has sparked a conversation online, with many viewers applauding VJ Adams for challenging shallow standards in modern relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Anifowoshe Oladipupo Nigerian media personality and television host, Adams Ibrahim Adebola, popularly known as VJ Adams, has delivered a blunt message to men about how they approach dating. In a video posted on his Instagram page, VJ Adams advised men to stop focusing on physical appearance when choosing a partner and start prioritising meaningful [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":66340,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[179],"tags":[59],"class_list":["post-66339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment","tag-featured"],"aioseo_notices":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=66339"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":66341,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66339\/revisions\/66341"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/66340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=66339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=66339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}