{"id":33741,"date":"2024-06-05T14:57:54","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T14:57:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/?p=33741"},"modified":"2024-06-05T14:57:54","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T14:57:54","slug":"bbnaija-star-tolani-baj-on-balancing-independence-and-femininity-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/2024\/06\/05\/bbnaija-star-tolani-baj-on-balancing-independence-and-femininity-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"BBNaija Star Tolani Baj on Balancing Independence and Femininity in Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"flex flex-grow flex-col max-w-full\">\n<div class=\"min-h-[20px] text-message flex flex-col items-start whitespace-pre-wrap break-words [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5 juice:w-full juice:items-end overflow-x-auto gap-2\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"43665dc4-b673-4a61-8dd3-150bd5e4d1a0\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 juice:empty:hidden juice:first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose w-full break-words dark:prose-invert light\">\n<p><em><strong>By Oratokhai Jesusemen O.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Big Brother Naija star Tolani Baj recently shared insights on how she balances her independent nature while being in a relationship during an interview with Clout Radio.<\/p>\n<p>When asked how she handles being an independent woman yet still desires to be treated like a princess by a man she&#8217;s dating, Tolani Baj explained that she tends to adopt a more submissive role and allows her partner to lead.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So when I don&#8217;t have a guy in my life, I&#8217;m in my masculine energy. I do everything with or without a man. But when I do have a man in my life, I let him take the lead and I have to constantly remember that &#8216;baby girl, relax in your feminine energy, you don&#8217;t have to be too forward,'&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Tolani Baj emphasized how she lets her partner handle things she would otherwise do herself if she were single.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Even if I know how to do something, I&#8217;d still pretend and be like a damsel in distress like &#8216;Hey babe, how do you do that?&#8217; when deeply I can do it. In fact, if it&#8217;s to change a tyre I can change tyres,&#8221; she said, laughing. She then admitted, &#8220;Okay, I&#8217;m lying, I can&#8217;t change a tyre, but if it has to come to that I will learn it. But I just let men take the lead when they&#8217;re in my life, but if they&#8217;re not in my life and I have to be independent I will step into that role like a boss.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Oratokhai Jesusemen O. Big Brother Naija star Tolani Baj recently shared insights on how she balances her independent nature while being in a relationship during an interview with Clout Radio. When asked how she handles being an independent woman yet still desires to be treated like a princess by a man she&#8217;s dating, Tolani [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":33744,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[179],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment"],"aioseo_notices":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33741","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33741"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33741\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33745,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33741\/revisions\/33745"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33744"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33741"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33741"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33741"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}