{"id":33521,"date":"2024-06-03T10:36:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:36:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/?p=33521"},"modified":"2024-06-03T10:37:41","modified_gmt":"2024-06-03T10:37:41","slug":"tems-lots-of-men-have-no-agenda-in-relationships-other-than-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/2024\/06\/03\/tems-lots-of-men-have-no-agenda-in-relationships-other-than-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Tems: “Lots of Men Have No Agenda in Relationships Other Than Sex”"},"content":{"rendered":"
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By Cynthia Abah<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, recently shared her views on the intentions of many men in relationships. She expressed that a significant number of men approach relationships primarily for sex.<\/p>\n

In the teaser for an upcoming episode of \u201cFlow with Korty,\u201d host Korty EO asked Tems if she had ever been in love. Tems responded, \u201cA lot of guys, they are very obvious\u2026 There is no agenda but to penetrate.\u201d<\/p>\n

The Oscar-nominated singer also spoke about her experiences of being misunderstood and bullied due to her reserved nature. \u201cEverything I did seemed to annoy everybody. They would say, \u2018Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.\u2019 And I would say, \u2018You are very stupid. Are you crazy?\u2019 I was upset all the time,\u201d she shared.<\/p>\n

Tems revealed that she found comfort and solace in her musical talent amidst these challenges.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

By Cynthia Abah Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, recently shared her views on the intentions of many men in relationships. She expressed that a significant number of men approach relationships primarily for sex. In the teaser for an upcoming episode of \u201cFlow with Korty,\u201d host Korty EO asked Tems if she […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":33522,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[179],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-33521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-entertainment"],"aioseo_notices":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33521","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33521"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33521\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":33524,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33521\/revisions\/33524"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/33522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33521"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33521"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/abujacityjournal.com\/livenews\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33521"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}